I see you there. Utterly exhausted, worn down, anxious, overwhelmed, irritable or just plain irritable.
Are you surprised at how immensely hard your parenting journey has been?
Does it feel like other Mums do it so much easier than you?
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Are you more anxious, flat or angry than you ever were?
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Do you feel SO touched out/sensory overloaded by the end of the day (and partners don't even think about touching you at bed time)!
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Struggling to manage the mental load and why your partner just doesn't seem to get it?
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Resentful that your partner can take a day or moment to themselves, whenever they like?
Can't remember the last time you had some free, cup filling time to yourself, without feeling guilty?
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Are you just SO worn down, that exhausted isn't even the right word to describe it?
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If that's you, you are definitely not alone.
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There are SO MANY other Mums just like you, struggling with the same things.
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So, I'm here to help you with that..
Hi, I’m Sarah Purvey, a mother of two spirited girls, author of my first book (Keep Sane and Parent On) and a psychologist with 16 years experience. I know first hand the challenges of balancing motherhood, work, relationships and personal well-being.
In my role as a psychologist and the founder of Eastern Shore Psychology, I’ve supported countless mothers like you. I’ve seen the struggles you face and am passionate about helping you find practical solutions. My approach combines effective, evidence-based therapies to help you manage stress, be less consumed by your negative thoughts and painful feelings, develop more self compassion and build a stronger connection with yourself and your family.
There will always be bumps, obstacles and mountains to climb in our life. Life is no fairy tale, but we can learn to get better at embracing this and enjoy the joyful moments, even when life is challenging.
I guarantee you, I'm still an overwhelmed Mum too, sometimes! And, I have seen countless Mums in my psychology practice, experiencing the issues I've mentioned, just like you.
We’ve been sold a myth that motherhood is only about love, joy and an imperative we must do, to complete us, once we find a long term partner.
Motherhood IS about love, happiness and joy. But few people talk about the messiness, pain, guilt, resentment, challenge and utter exhaustion and relentnessness that will bring you to your knees.
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No one tells you that you will experience a depth of all of your emotions, that you never knew to be possible.
To love to your fullest extent, the way you love your children, is to be willing to feel into the depths of your soul.
I want to create a safe space for you to help cope with the harder bits and harness those joyful moments.
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A safe space for Mums to support each other, with ZERO judgement, while being guided by a psychologist, with tried and true psychology strategies, that so many Mums use in my individual therapy sessions.
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I want to show you a sanctuary, to ease the overwhelm of motherhood.
Parenthood is about finding a village and this is what I want to create for you.
You need a regular place to find solace and support from Mums who get it and access resources from a Mum psychologist, who does truly understand the difficulties of the parenting journey.
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Cheerleaders on the regular, through the challenging moments.
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A place to learn ways you can cope with your overwhelming feelings.
Introducing
Your Sanctuary: Online Support for Exhausted Mums
A 6-week online program designed with the needs of busy, overwhelmed mums in mind. In this supportive space, you’ll find practical, doable strategies, compassionate guidance, and a community of like-minded mothers.
Here’s what you’ll receive in my 6-week program:
Weekly Recordings: Concise, focused videos with check-ins, a dedicated topic on managing motherhood exhaustion, and small, achievable goals to set each week.
Manageable Pace: Each week, new modules are released at a doable pace, allowing you to absorb and apply the material without feeling overwhelmed.
Practical Psychology Strategies: Simple, actionable techniques to implement even when you feel overwhelmed, helping you tackle daily challenges effectively.
Weekly Self-Care Prize Draw: Stay motivated with our weekly prize draw, encouraging you to commit to your goals and celebrate your progress.
Supportive Facebook Group: Connect with like-minded mums for ongoing support and advice, share experiences together and receive personalized answers to your queries from my professional and personal experience.
Exclusive MP3s: Audio resources designed for mothers, by me, to foster calm, manage painful feelings and thoughts, foster self-compassion, and develop connection with your values, to helping you understand and improve your life.
Ongoing Access: to the Facebook group and content, for continued support and interaction with the group.
"Thank you so much for the group,
it is such a great resource"
Megan from 2023 group
And as an extra bonus
You'll receive a copy of my book Keep Sane and Parent On, via ebook or grab the hard copy if you prefer (extra $10 postage).
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BONUS video on managing the mental load
By the end of the course you will:
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Address Mum Guilt: Learn strategies to tackle and be less overwhelmed by feelings of guilt.
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Manage Emotions: Gain a better understanding of and tools for handling anxiety, anger, sadness, and general overwhelm.
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Ease the Mental Load: Discover tips to lighten the mental burden of motherhood.
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Feel Supported: Experience a stronger sense of support and understanding.
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Improve Relationships: Enhance your connections with your partner, family, and friends.
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Understand Anxiety and Depression: Learn more about these issues and effective ways to address them.
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Practice Self-Compassion: Develop a kinder approach to yourself and embrace your personal growth as a mother.
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Feel Less Alone: Connect with others and recognize that you’re not alone in your struggles.
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Embrace Good Enough Parenting: Understand that doing your best is sufficient.
Each week, we will cover: -
Week 1: Check in in on Your Mental Health – Take stock of where you're at and learn simple ways to prioritize your well-being.
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Week 2: Recognizing Perfectionism – Understand how striving for perfection may be adding to your stress and anxiety.
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Week 3: Managing Anxiety and Anger – Explore techniques for letting go of control and handling strong emotions.
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Week 4: Tackling Mum Guilt and Building Self-Compassion – Practical steps to alleviate guilt and practice self compassion.
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Week 5: Expanding Friendships – Tips for growing and nurturing your social connections.
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Week 6: Enhancing Communication – Improve your communication skills with your partner or potential partners.
you really have helped me thru a massive HUGE change in my life....thank you so much.
I owe you so much more than $300"
Nicole
I have learnt so much. I'm really grateful that we can go back over the learnings as well. Thank you Sarah for all of the effort and time you have put into this.
Megan
Thanks so much Sarah! I’ve really learnt a lot from this course it’s been useful (especially to know how common some of my feelings are!)"
Cathy